We have all done it. We have over-committed our time. We have said “yes” to endeavors that are worthwhile, but we underestimated the time involved to perform our roles. The more we invested our energies into these commitments, the less joy and satisfaction we had. As we look to 2017, let’s ask ourselves, “What are we engaging in that is draining us or burning us out?” I want to help us biblically discern whether we should unhook from any commitments or not. To guide us, I want to summarize three simple lessons I learned from Dr. Yount, a former seminary professor of mine. His teaching came from this passage:
“Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light.” (Matt 11:28-30)
Dr. Yount read this passage in class and asked us, “DOES YOUR YOKE FIT?” His question intrigued us, so we listened as he broke down this passage for us.
Lesson #1: We have the POWER of Jesus when we share His yoke
When farmers need to plow their fields, they often place the yoke on two oxen to till the fields. By using two oxen, the synergy of two animals makes cultivating the field easier than if one ox did all the work. Moreover, the farmer makes sure that the yoke fits for each animal. Dr. Yount reminded us that we can be guilty of putting on a yoke that Christ never asked us to wear! Imagine wearing a yoke that choked us every time we exerted effort. Not only would it be painful, but most of us might ask, “Why are we doing this?” If Jesus invites us to wear HIS yoke, then His “yoke is easy and His burden is light.”
Lesson #2: We have FELLOWSHIP with Jesus when we share His yoke
When two oxen share yokes, they are not only working together, but they are spending time together. In our walk with Christ, we spend time with Him through prayer. We listen to His voice. He wants us to learn from Him. And we will not find a better teacher to study under than Jesus! Henry Blackaby, the author of Experiencing God, said, “God wants to do extraordinary things through ordinary people like us.” We can’t do extraordinary things without God’s power and help. When God invites us to partner with Him to fulfill our callings, He never asks us to do it alone. We remember that “apart from Him, we can do nothing!” (John 15:5) If the yoke fits, we will experience His fellowship and teachings as we journey with Him.
Lesson #3: We have REST with Jesus when we share His yoke
Jesus invites those of us who are weary and burdened to come to Him. Is it possible that we are not experiencing rest because we’ve taken on a yoke that doesn’t fit? Jesus never intended for us to become run down. If we’re experiencing burnout or chronic exhaustion, that is not from Him. It is likely that we put on a yoke that wasn’t from Him. I can see past chapters of my life where I over-committed because I wanted to please people. I made poor decisions when I prayed for God’s guidance, but then became impatient while waiting for His answer. If He was too slow, I pre-empted the work of the Holy Spirit, and took on yokes that He wasn’t asking me to wear. These were hard lessons to learn.
If the Lord has brought a certain commitment to mind as you’re reading this, perhaps God is asking you to re-evaluate it. Ask, “Does the yoke fit?” If not, TAKE IT OFF! The Lord has a custom-fit yoke that is just for you to help you succeed in your callings. If we wear the right yoke, I feel confident that 2017 can be our best year yet because we’ve partnered with Jesus to accomplish HIS goals. I welcome your thoughts below.
Blessings,
Lee Ann
Thanks for giving this on time message. =) Blessings…
I’m glad it was helpful. 🙂
Blessings,
Lee Ann
I also thank you for the timeliness of this message! I have already backed out of a couple of commitments over the past 6 months because of the crazy year we have had. I now feel that perhaps I actually made good decisions! I will continue to pray and try to hear if and when I am called into other projects/commitments as the new year progresses.
You’re most welcome, Debbie! When we let go of ill-fitting yokes, we are freed to start over and seek the yoke Christ has designed just for us. You’re doing exactly what all of us need to be doing, and that is to pray and listen for His voice to know which commitments He wants us to pursue – with Him.
Blessings,
Lee Ann
Happy New Year! Your “blog” is a blessing this New Year’s Eve as I contemplate moving into 2017. I have become a caregiver for a disabled husband and this scripture reminds me that prayer will help me through each day. The burden of this role does get heavy. God will fill me with his love and grace! Thank you for the reminder.
Dear Martha:
I appreciate your thoughts on this. I think taking care of your husband is a great example of wearing a yoke that God has called you to do. Marriage is God-ordained, and it is a labor of love to carry each other’s burden. God called to move to Austin to take care of my parents, and though it had its share of challenges and stresses, I felt overall joy and great satisfaction that I could be here for him, and now for Mother and Tinsley. And I think that’s the difference between a yoke that God custom-fits for us vs one we put on by ourselves. When we share the yoke with Him, our commitments don’t become a burden, or rob us of our joy. We find satisfaction in our labors of love.
May God bless you as you care for your husband!
Lee Ann
Lee Ann, this is so good! Thanks for sharing. Any belief system that places a heavy yoke on people is a sad substitute for the freedom we have in Christ and the easy yoke we share with Him. Thanks again for bringing this insight!
Thank you, Brenda! You speak truth!
Blessings,
Lee Ann
This really spoke to me. I have been much more mindful of my “yoke” for the past three years. I use to say “yes” to almost everything I was invited to do ( mainly because it all sounded interesting/fun/pleasing to God) but I ended up with a messy house, messy mind and exhausted. I am now more selective about where I spend my time and have more quiet time. This has grounded me, made me more “present”, allowed me more time for prayer/reflection and consequently more joyful.
I like the concept of my “yoke”.
Thank you Lee Ann for this lovely article.
Thank you for your testimony of being mindful of your “yoke!” This will encourage others to evaluate if they are wearing a yoke that wasn’t from the Lord.
Blessings,
Lee Ann