One evening while I was leading bible study, a new Christian asked, “Does the Bible teach that suicide is an unpardonable sin?” She grew up in the Catholic Church where her priest taught that suicide was an act against God and a sin for which one could not repent. If one could not repent, then God wouldn’t pardon him. So, suicide became the “unpardonable sin,” which meant to her that someone could lose their salvation.
As the group unpacked the question, I realized they had received mixed messages and needed a clear, biblical response. Let me clarify for you here what the Bible teaches about suicide and the “unpardonable sin” so your mind can rest. It’s complicated, but stay with me.
Suicide is a sin, but it is not the “unpardonable sin.” The Sixth Commandment states “You shall not murder.” Suicide is the murder of self. Since God created us in His image and His word teaches the sanctity of life, it is never our prerogative to take someone else’s life or our own. Moreover, the Christian stance is that God is the author of life. He doesn’t just create us, but He also pre-ordains the number of days He will grant to us before we’re born. Here are three Scripture passages that support that God controls how long we live:
Deut 32:39 – “See now that I am He! There is no god besides me. I put to death and I bring to life, I have wounded and I will heal, and no one can deliver out of my hand.
Ps 139:15-16 – “My frame was not hidden from you when I was made in the secret place. When I was woven in the depths of the earth, your eyes saw my unformed body. All the days ordained for me was written in your book before one of them came to be.”
Job 14:5 – “Man’s days are determined; you have decreed the number of his months and have set limits he cannot exceed.”
Therefore, when a person commits suicide, two sins are committed. One not only sins by murdering himself, but also opposes God’s will by rejecting the number of days God ordained for him.
So what is the “unpardonable sin” and where does it stem from? The Bible passage most often cited is Matthew 12:31-32. Jesus confronts the Pharisees: “And so I tell you, every sin and blasphemy will be forgiven men, but the blasphemy against the Spirit will not be forgiven. Anyone who speaks a word against the Son of Man will be forgiven, but anyone who speaks against the Holy Spirit will not be forgiven, either in this age or in the age to come.” When we read this, it’s hard not to feel unsettled. We wonder if we have somehow committed the sin of “speaking against the Holy Spirit.” But we need to understand the context of this passage.
From a historic perspective, the Pharisees hated Christ. They suggested that His miracles were from Beelzebub, the prince of demons! By claiming that Jesus’s miracles were of the devil, they were blaspheming the Holy Spirit’s testimony that Jesus was the Son of God. Moreover, they didn’t care about Christ’s ability to forgive their sins. They continuously rejected Jesus.
There is only one “unpardonable sin” that can separate us from God for eternity. It is the ongoing, willful refusal to accept Christ as Lord and Savior and the forgiveness He offers.
As you can see, connecting suicide with the “unpardonable sin” is not biblically sound. So can someone lose their salvation for committing suicide? The Bible tells us that God forgives the believer’s sins at the moment of salvation (John 3:16; 10:28). When we become a child of God, all of our sins, even those committed after salvation, are no longer held against us.
Ephesians 2:8 says, ” For it is by grace you have been saved, through faith—and this not from yourselves, it is the gift of God.” So, we are saved by God’s grace, not by our own good deeds. In the same way that our good works don’t save us, our bad ones, or sins, cannot keep us from salvation.
Paul made it plain in Romans 8:38-39 that nothing can separate us from God’s love: “For I am convinced that neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither the present nor the future, nor any powers, neither height nor depth, nor anything else in all creation, will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord.”
For some of you, suicide has hit too close to home. You’ve lost a loved one or a close friend and are still trying to process it. There is no question that suicide is tragic, but it does not negate the Lord’s act of redemption. Our salvation rests securely in the finished work of Jesus Christ on the cross. So then, “Everyone who calls on the name of the Lord will be saved.” (Rom 10:13)
Does this post make it clear to you that suicide is not the “unpardonable sin?” Do you have any further questions on the matter? Let me know how I can assist you. Click the link below to share your questions, thoughts, or comments.
Blessings,
Lee Ann
Blessings,
Lee Ann