I love the season of Christmas. It’s the time of year that tugs my heart to gather with my family. This year was yet another fun and joyous time of being with my family and extended family. I love the traditions that are in place and the memories that will be treasured for a lifetime. Let me share one with you.
Every year my Mother gets asked the following question, “Is Aunt Betty Ann coming with her Christmas Cookie Bouquet?” My Mother is the great aunt to 9 nieces and nephews belonging to my cousin Carol (ages range from 2 to 21), and 3 belonging to my cousin Kathy. As you can see, Carol and her husband took God’s command to “be fruitful and multiply” rather seriously! My Mother started a fun tradition years ago that all of her nieces and nephews love and that was to bring a special cookie for each child via a cookie bouquet. These aren’t just ordinary cookies. These are custom-made with Christmas themes and are baked and fitted on sticks (or “stems”). Here was this year’s cookie bouquet (ignore the date!): Since my cousin Carol didn’t have all 9 children in one year, the challenge for Mother over the years has been coming with the right number of cookies. When asked “Are you coming with the cookie bouquet?”, her response is “Exactly how many nieces and nephews do I have THIS year?!” The joy in this tradition is watching the kids approach the cookie bouquet to admire each of the cookies that will depict a Santa, or a Christmas tree, or a reindeer, or a snowflake, etc. It is so cute how they just labor over the decision of which cookie they want! So how do you know who gets which cookie? We simply have a drawing for numbers. This year there were 12 nieces and nephews, so 12 slips of paper were put in a basket so that each child could draw a number. The one who draws #1 gets to pick their cookie first. The one who draws #12 gets whatever is left! Then once everyone has their prized cookie in hand, they all gather around my Mother for the group shot to show off their chosen cookie, which is always precious. Here is this year’s picture (or go to http://www.facebook.com/photo.php?pid=194415&id=100001592625717#!/photo.php?pid=194412&id=100001592625717&fbid=128478887215198 to view more)
As I reflect on this Christmas celebration and those of the past, I won’t remember the specific gifts I received, but rather the laughter, my cousins singing their specials for the family, the sparkle in the kids eyes as they staked out cookies, the big smiles on the faces of each child as they opened their gifts, experiencing the genuine love that is shared in our family, and just watching my Mother cuddle her 2.5 yr old nephew David. If you look at her holding him, then you have a glimpse of how much love I experienced in my own home that just keeps on growing year after year!
There is no question that there is a period of time during our celebration that Christmas is all about the cookies and watching the joy spread across the faces of my cousins as they chose their cookie, but there is also no doubt that Christ was present in this celebration. This Christmas season I was impacted by the truth of Christ incarnate who came to dwell among us (John 1:14). We celebrate Emmanuel, or “God with us”. But the greater joy is that a great majority of my family has accepted Jesus Christ as our Lord and Savior (John 1:12), so our celebration is about “Christ in us” and the bond in Christ that we share. As I enjoyed building memories with my family, I couldn’t help but see Christ “incarnate” in each person in the room. That’s CHRISTmas for me! I am blessed beyond measure to have a family where the love and light of Christ shines bright and am so thankful that the Lord placed me in this family. Thank you for indulging me as I share one of my favorite memories and traditions for this year’s Christmas. I hope you had a very merry Christmas as well!
Blessings,
Lee Ann