Do you think about the spiritual legacy you’re leaving behind for your family? We tend to think about our legacy in financial terms, but our family and friends will remember us best by our spiritual legacy. I’ve thought about this lately while watching Dad at his nursing home.
Dad recently called to tell me that Pete, a nursing home resident, prayed to receive Jesus as his Lord and Savior after Dad shared his faith with him. Dad has a heart for lost souls and has modeled obedience to the Great Commission for many years. During the 1970s, he traveled to Russia and smuggled bibles to Christians who worshipped secretly in their homes. He also created a ministry called, “Unto the Least of These,” that supported missionaries in countries hostile to Christians. Living in a nursing home doesn’t stop Dad from continuing to spread the good news.
Dad asked me to pray for Pete, inviting me to partner with him in his ministry. But then he said something that caught me off guard. In his zeal, he gave his bible to Pete. Dad’s bible has all of his study notes, collected in the margins over many years. It is the only thing he possesses that I would cherish upon his death. While he was excited, my heart sank.
I treasure the family bibles that have been passed down. I have the Holman’s Sunday School Teacher’s Bible, published in 1894, that belonged to Gran Jones. When she died, Dad inherited the legacy found in her notes made throughout her bible, and I now have it. Here is what I see when I open it to the first page:
Another family member, Uncle Bill in Brady, TX, passed away in 1996. I remember staying with Aunt Kathryn over the Christmas holidays and discovering his bible by my bedside. It drew me like a magnet. As soon as I opened it, I saw Uncle Bill’s notations reflecting how the Spirit spoke to him. I thought, “What a treasure to leave behind for his family! I hope my bible will reveal my walk with Christ as powerfully as it did for Uncle Bill.”
I wanted Dad’s bible, and I developed a game plan to get it back. His 77th birthday was last Tuesday, April 30th. Not only would we celebrate his birthday, but I had a mission to return Dad’s bible to the family! He had already asked me to buy him a large print bible since he had given his bible to Pete. So I decided to purchase a second large print bible to have on hand to swap with Pete. I had no idea what to expect, but I was prepared to discuss it.
I arrived at the nursing home with my two large print bibles. I walked into Dad’s room, ready to broach the subject. I expressed my desire to have his bible some day and asked if he would object to letting me work this out with Pete. I explained that his bible was an important representation of the spiritual legacy he was leaving behind. I affirmed him for the strong influence he had in introducing me to Christ and to grow as a Christian. Dad was overwhelmed by my words. He had no idea how important his bible was to me. He immediately blessed my plan to go for an exchange of bibles with Pete!
It was getting late, and I hightailed it to Pete’s room so I could catch him before he went to bed. Pete knows me because I frequently share meals with Dad, and Pete sits at Dad’s table. I explained to Pete that we wished to keep my Dad’s bible in the family, but as a new believer, we wanted him to have a large print bible of his own. Pete immediately agreed to the swap. He showed compassion by hurrying in his wheelchair to his chest of drawers to retrieve it for me.
I was elated. I got back to Dad’s room and showed him his rescued bible. I asked him if he wanted to keep his bible with him, even though the print was too small for him. He said no, but then did something that touched my heart. Even though it was his birthday to celebrate, I received the best gift he could give me. He said, “I bequeath my bible to you today. Since this means so much to you, I want you to have it now.”
In an age where books are becoming more digital, I’m afraid we’re going to miss the opportunity to leave a tangible version of our spiritual legacy to our family members. It’s hard to write notes into a Kindle! I have a study bible that is filled with underlining, highlighting, and notes in the margin. I hope my bible reflects the spiritual legacy I will leave behind some day. In the meantime, I’m going to enjoy Dad’s bible. His spiritual legacy will reverberate every time I open it.
Do you own a study bible where you underline, highlight, and make notes? Do you think it’s an important part of the overall spiritual legacy you leave behind?
Blessings, Lee Ann
Great message – thanks!!! Linda
Thank you, Linda!
what a lovely article and great reminder, Lee Ann.
Thank you, Cheryl. I appreciate your feedback.
Blessings,
Lee Ann
Bill’s Bible still goes everywhere with me. It is one of my most treasured possessions.
Aunt Kathryn:
Thank you for commenting on this blog. If looking at Uncle Bill’s bible impacted me as strongly as it did, then I can only imagine how much his bible is a treasure trove for you! Thanks for validating how significant Uncle Bill’s bible is to those who are left behind.
Love and Hugs,
Lee Ann
I couldn’t agree more and loved the story. I have 2 daily reading Bibles that I have used for more than 10 years now. They both are filled with notes, underlining, highlightings, the works! One will go to Cody and one will go to Zachary at some time in the future as part of my legacy to them.
Jeff,
That is so awesome! I love how intentional you’re being to leave your spiritual legacy in written form to your sons. They will deeply appreciate your efforts when The Lord takes you home.
Blessings,
Lee Ann
I just LOVED your story, Lee Ann. I have a Bible I’ve filled with notes and highlights over the years, and my daughter told me several years ago that she wants it when I die (I don’t think my sons will care!). It’s a version that I guess not many people use (New King James). I’ve switched to other versions a few times, but I return to my old raggedy one for comfort, and often think about my daughter looking at what I notate some day.
Peggy,
I LOVE that your daughter already understands how significant it is that you have a bible filled with God’s spoken word to you! The fact that it’s already cherished says that she sees the love of Christ in you and through you and that you fed on His Word to become more like Him. I think it’s a beautiful endorsement from your daughter of the beauty of your spirit. I see this sweet spirit in you every Sunday!
Thank you for taking a couple of minutes to share your take on this component of our spiritual legacy. It is my prayer that people will truly get that the family members left behind find solace, comfort and encouragement by reading the bible of a deceased loved one.
Love and Hugs,
Lee Ann
In reference to your blog, my son, Michael took my Amplified Bible (my first Bible, almost the whole thing is highlighted!) my now bible is the NIV study Bible and it looks like your grandfathers – it has come loose from the binding – I have all my favorite scripture references on the inside cover. And over the 30 years that I have had my “new” version, I have underlined and dated scriptures that I have prayed mostly for my children. Their names are all through the book! I’m looking forward to them reading it someday and saying “wow – didn’t know mom cared so much”.
I have my step father’s bible. I didn’t know he was “spiritual” but I guess he had to turn to God to stay married to my mother. He was raised by his widowed mother in Waxahatchi – the home of an Assemblies of God College. The moment I was born again, I thought of the grandparents who had obviously been praying for me since I was a baby. I claim Psalm 16 as “my” psalm. “the boundary lines have fallen for me in pleasant places – surely I have a goodly inheritance”. Love, Mickey
Mickey,
That is WONDERFUL! Your kids are already blessed beyond measure, Mickey! They will not have to wait until you die to figure out how much you loved them and cared for them.
Love,
Lee Ann
I got my Dad’s bible after he died! I felt very lucky and still have it today 🙂
Isn’t that comforting?! What a blessing to have it!